Face To Face & Side By Side

I have been always thinking that as an individual, we have the same aspiration to express ourselves and talk to others. But after I gone together with my boy friend for a year, I realized what I think is not true. Each time I sit down express look forward to have a deep and serious conversation with him, he behaves impatient and unwilling. You can imagine how depressed and unhappy I am when he responded like that. And also because of this failing experience, I wonder the difference between men and women.

When women want to talk, they stare at each other and tell each other all of their secrets. We like seeing the emotion in the other person and connecting with that. But the male doesn't like that. And doing an activity of some kind helps them to dissipate the emotion so it doesn’t feel as intense. This allows them to become more focused on solving the problem instead of just talking about it.  So if you want to get a man to talk, the best way to do it is by getting him involved in an activity where he is side by side not face to face.