2013年12月20日星期五

Are You Prepared for the Big Challenge in Marriage?

Everyone who say “I do” at the wedding ceremony may be determined to live to old with your spouse.  However, not all love stories have a happy ending.  The wedding day is only the first day of many “I do’s.” One of the most reliable predictors of a lifelong marriage is the commitment to a lifelong marriage. Without it, all the following challenges and troubles may produce the seed of divorce. It is the commitments of long-lasting marriages bury the divorce. It is the commitment to look for a way through a troublesome problem that makes solutions possible, despite all odds. This doesn’t mean that we pretend that divorce would never happen to us.  It means being proactive and doing the daily work of nurturing the marriage so that divorce does not become the final escape. When boredom or weariness challenge your love, it is commitment that pushes you to renew it by dating each other again, attending a marriage retreat or, if necessary, consulting a counselor.


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