Everyone who say “I do” at the wedding ceremony may be
determined to live to old with your spouse. However, not all love stories have a happy
ending. The wedding day is only the
first day of many “I do’s.” One of the most reliable predictors of a lifelong
marriage is the commitment to a lifelong marriage. Without it, all the
following challenges and troubles may produce the seed of divorce. It is the commitments
of long-lasting marriages bury the divorce.
It is the commitment to look for a way through a troublesome problem that makes
solutions possible, despite all odds. This doesn’t mean that we pretend that
divorce would never happen to us. It
means being proactive and doing the daily work of nurturing the marriage so
that divorce does not become the final escape. When boredom or weariness
challenge your love, it is commitment that pushes you to renew it by dating
each other again, attending a marriage retreat or, if necessary, consulting a
counselor.
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